I ’m a mom.I am also a woman, a wife, a daughter, and a friend.
Recently I started blogging. As it turns out, I am a writer too.
This page may can help you learn more about Mon
1. Stay true to yourself.
If you take care of your own needs, you will be happier and will function better as a mom.
2.Don’t be a martyr
The kids didn’t ask for it, they don’t need it, and they certainly don’t need to pay the price that comes with being mothered by a martyr.
3.Ditch the guilt. Guilt seems to be one of the most common side effects of motherhood. A friend once told me that she feels guilt every single day.
4.Don’t try to be perfect
This is true for life in general, and is a major personal goal of mine, regardless of motherhood.
5.Be Patient. Raising kids is hard work. Kids are noisy, messy and incredibly demanding
6.Listen to your children. REALLY listen. This is a tough one for me, but I keep trying.
7.Be their mom, not their friend. Set limits. In a way, it was easy for previous generations.
8.Teach them to be self-reliant. Another one that I struggle with every day. It’s very tempting to help your children in a way that robs them of the opportunity to help themselves
9.Laugh and have fun! When you’re a mom, it’s easy to become so absorbed in the logistics of taking care of your kids – what Leo refers to as the “mom stuff” - that you forget to relax and have fun. But kids are fun.
At leat .we can consider that thoes list is a hard job for us ?They’re different in some way, and similar in others .My list, hopefully, helps moms find theirs.
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